Couples Trauma Specialist
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Certified Gottman Therapist
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EMDR Certified Clinician
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Amazon Bestselling Author
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Certified Gottman Therapist
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EMDR Certified Clinician
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Couples Trauma Specialist
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Amazon Bestselling Author
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Betrayal Trauma Recovery
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Certified Gottman Therapist
Couples Trauma Specialist

You've Called Three Local Therapists. None of Them Have Specific Training in What You're Going Through.

Most couples therapists are generalists — and generalist training wasn't designed for betrayal trauma. The PTSD symptoms, the intrusive images, the obsessive checking, the panic attacks — these need a therapist specifically trained to treat trauma at the nervous system level, not just the relationship level.

Betrayal trauma is not a communication problem.
It's a trauma response. It needs a therapist who is specifically trained — and certified — to treat it.

New Jersey has thousands of licensed therapists. It has very few Certified Gottman Therapists with EMDR certification who specialize in betrayal trauma recovery. And for years, getting that level of care meant one thing: driving to Manhattan. Not anymore.

Dr. Cammy's virtual practice brings the same specialist-level care you'd find in a Park Avenue office — without the GWB, the Lincoln Tunnel, or a two-hour round trip on top of the hardest situation you've ever faced.

There's a meaningful difference between a therapist who has seen infidelity cases and a therapist whose entire practice is built around betrayal trauma recovery. The difference shows up in session two.

Call: (914) 499-0631

Call: (914) 499-0631

Built for Bergen County, Essex County, Hudson County & Beyond

If you discovered infidelity in the last 30 days, you don't need to wait for the "right time." Dr. Cammy prioritizes prompt scheduling for couples in acute crisis.
Bergen County families in Ridgewood, Tenafly, Alpine, Englewood Cliffs — where an affair has put everything at risk and local therapist options don't meet the standard you need
NYC commuters who spend 90 minutes a day on NJ Transit and discovered something happened during all that time away from home
Hoboken and Jersey City couples navigating the pressures of proximity to NYC's financial industry — the late nights, the work events, the colleagues that became something more
Short Hills, Summit, and Chatham families where keeping up the image of the perfect life makes the internal collapse even harder to navigate
Partners who've tried therapy before and are ready for a more structured, specialized approach
Couples where one partner is reluctant—and the other needs to know that starting individually is a legitimate path that frequently brings the reluctant partner around
High-income dual-career couples where the practical stakes—the house, the assets, the children's schools—make this decision feel even more overwhelming

The Clinical Tools NYC's Highest-Stakes Cases Require

Every couple's pain is unique. Our therapeutic approach is tailored to your specific situation using proven, research-backed methods.

Gottman Couples Therapy

Certified Gottman Therapist—a rigorous credential fewer than 10% of therapists hold. The distinction matters. Evidence-based communication skills, conflict management, and friendship-rebuilding for couples who need structure, not platitudes.

Betrayal & Infidelity Recovery

A structured 3-phase roadmap from discovery to decision. A structured process with clear milestones—so you always know where you are and what comes next.

EMDR for Complex PTSD

Betrayal trauma can create symptoms that mirror PTSD—intrusive images, panic attacks, hypervigilance, and insomnia. EMDR reprocesses the trauma at the nervous system level so couples therapy can actually do its job.

Three Phases. A Clear Roadmap. A Defined Path Forward.

No guesswork. No indefinite processing. Every session has a clear purpose — and you'll know what you're working toward before you leave.

01

Identify the Pattern

We assess your relationship using Gottman's research tools. You see exactly what's happening—and why

02

Replace the Pattern

We practice new skills in session—so they're automatic before the next real fight. Not theory. Practice.

03

Rebuild the Bond

Once the conflict cycle breaks, we rebuild what got buried under years of fighting: friendship, trust, intimacy.

Licensed in New Jersey. Specialized in What You're Going Through.

I'm Dr. Cammy—trauma therapist, Gottman-certified couples specialist, and bestselling author. I've helped 1,000+ couples navigate their most painful moments and find their way back to each other.

When you search for help after betrayal, you'll find plenty of therapists. What you won't find easily is someone who brings both clinical depth and genuine humanity to this work:
Betrayal trauma & PTSD recovery
Gottman-certified couples therapy
EMDR trauma processing
Fair Play & relationship equity programs
Licensed in New Jersey for both in-person and telehealth sessions. Also licensed in, Rhode Island, Ohio, Texas, Florida, Connecticut, Michigan, North Carolina, Georgia, Washington DC, California, and Massachusetts.

The Numbers Speak

1,135

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Couples

16

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Years Specializing in Trauma

14

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Licensed in 14 States + DC

What Clients Experience on the Other Side

What clients often describe after doing this work:

Sleep through the night—no more 2 AM panic attacks
Trust your partner again—from your gut, not your phone
Feel like yourself—clear-headed, present, strong
Move through conflict—without days of silence on the other side
From Bergen County to the Shore — We're Here.

Virtual therapy means geography isn't a barrier. Dr. Cammy works with couples across all of New Jersey, including:

Bergen County
Ridgewood
Tenafly
Alpine
Englewood
Englewood Cliffs
Fort Lee
Paramus
Mahwah
Madison
Basking Ridge
Essex County
Short Hills
Summit
Montclair
Chatham
Millburn
Hoboken
Jersey City
Morristown
Rumson
Westfield

Frequently Asked Questions

Frequently asked questions from New Jersey clients considering therapy.
Why choose a virtual specialist over a local New Jersey therapist?
Are you licensed to practice therapy in New Jersey?
What if my partner refuses to come?
Can one of us do EMDR individually while we also do couples sessions?
Do you accept insurance?
What if we're not sure we want to save the marriage?
How quickly can we get started?

If you have a question that isn’t covered here, feel free to Contact Us directly.

Ready to Talk?

The first step is just a conversation. Reach out directly to talk through what you're navigating and whether Dr. Cammy's approach is the right fit for you.

Dr. Cammy is licensed in New York and Connecticut.
Ready to talk? Text or call to get started.

Call: (914) 499-0631

Call: (914) 499-0631