Couples Trauma Specialist
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Certified Gottman Therapist
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EMDR Certified Clinician
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Amazon Bestselling Author
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Certified Gottman Therapist
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EMDR Certified Clinician
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Couples Trauma Specialist
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Amazon Bestselling Author
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Betrayal Trauma Recovery
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Certified Gottman Therapist
Couples Trauma Specialist

New York Makes Betrayal Harder to Escape — and Harder to Heal From.

Everywhere else, after an affair is discovered, the betrayed partner can at least go to work and think about something else.In New York, the affair partner is three floors up.You take the same elevator. You see them in the same meetings. You replay conversations while walking through Midtown. The city itself becomes a trigger.

New York doesn't give you distance from the thing that broke you.
This is why generic "communication skills" therapy doesn't work for NYC couples after infidelity. You need a therapist who understands that context — and has a structured approach built for it.

Dr. Cammy's practice is built for exactly this. High-stakes. High-complexity. High-pressure. Not open-ended processing — a structured roadmap from acute crisis to a clear decision, with the clinical tools to help you move forward with clarity.

Call: (914) 499-0631

Call: (914) 499-0631

Built for the NYC Couples That Generic Therapy Fails

If you discovered infidelity in the last 30 days, you don't need to wait for the "right time." Reaching out today is the right next step. Dr. Cammy prioritizes prompt scheduling for couples in acute crisis.
Finance, law, and tech professionals on Wall Street, in Midtown, or in the Financial District—where 80-hour weeks and office proximity created the conditions for infidelity
Couples where the affair partner is a colleague — still in the workplace, still requiring contact — and you need a therapist with a specific protocol for ongoing exposure
Upper East Side, Upper West Side, and Park Slope families whose overlapping social circles make the aftermath of discovery a public crisis, not just a private one
Dual-career couples where both partners are exhausted, disconnected, and one of them made a choice during that disconnection that changed everything
Partners who've tried therapy before and are ready for a more structured, skills-focused approach
Couples where the discovery was recent—within days or weeks—need immediate, structured support rather than a waitlist
Brooklyn, Queens, and Bronx residents who want specialist-level care without the Midtown premium or the time cost of a cross-borough commute

The Clinical Tools NYC's Highest-Stakes Cases Require

Every couple's pain is unique. Our therapeutic approach is tailored to your specific situation using proven, research-backed methods.

Gottman Couples Therapy

Certified Gottman Therapist—a rigorous credential fewer than 10% of therapists hold. The distinction matters. Evidence-based communication skills, conflict management, and friendship-rebuilding for couples who need structure, not platitudes.

Betrayal & Infidelity Recovery

A structured 3-phase roadmap from discovery to decision. A structured process with clear milestones—so you always know where you are and what comes next.

EMDR for Complex PTSD

Betrayal trauma can create symptoms that mirror PTSD—intrusive images, panic attacks, hypervigilance, and insomnia. EMDR reprocesses the trauma at the nervous system level so couples therapy can actually do its job.

Three Phases. A Clear Roadmap. A Defined Path Forward.

No guesswork. No indefinite processing. Every session has a clear purpose — and you'll know what you're working toward before you leave.

01

Identify the Pattern

We assess your relationship using Gottman's research tools. You see exactly what's happening—and why

02

Replace the Pattern

We practice new skills in session—so they're automatic before the next real fight. Not theory. Practice.

03

Rebuild the Bond

Once the conflict cycle breaks, we rebuild what got buried under years of fighting: friendship, trust, intimacy.

What Sets This Practice Apart in New York City

I'm Dr. Cammy—trauma therapist, Gottman-certified couples specialist, and bestselling author. I've helped 1,000+ couples navigate their most painful moments and find their way back to each other.

When you search for help after betrayal, you'll find plenty of therapists. What you won't find easily is someone who brings both clinical depth and genuine humanity to this work:
Betrayal trauma & PTSD recovery
Gottman-certified couples therapy
EMDR trauma processing
Fair Play & relationship equity programs
Licensed in New York, Connecticut, and New Jersey, including Rhode Island, Ohio, Texas, Florida, Michigan, North Carolina, Georgia, Washington DC, California, and Massachusetts. Partners who travel or split time between states may be able to continue sessions—subject to applicable state licensing.

The Numbers Speak

1,135

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Couples

16

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Years Specializing in Trauma

14

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Licensed in 14 States + DC

What Clients Often Describe After Doing This Work

What clients often describe after doing this work:

Sleep through the night—no more 2 AM panic attacks
Trust your partner again—from your gut, not your phone
Feel like yourself—clear-headed, present, strong
Move through conflict — without days of silence on the other side
Manhattan, Brooklyn, Queens, the Bronx, Staten Island — and Beyond.

Virtual therapy means no neighborhood is excluded. Dr. Cammy works with couples across all five boroughs and throughout New York State:

Upper East Side
Upper West Side
Midtown
Financial District
TriBeCa
SoHo
Chelsea
Murray Hill
Gramercy
West/East Village
Long Island
Brooklyn Heights
Park Slope
Williamsburg
Cobble Hill
Astoria
Long Island City
Riverdale
Forest Hills
Staten Island
Great Neck
Westchester

Frequently Asked Questions

Frequently asked questions from NYC clients considering therapy.
How is this different from other couples therapists in NYC?
The affair partner is a colleague my spouse still works with. Can you still help?
My spouse wants to do therapy but I'm not ready. What should I start with?
Are you licensed to practice in New York?
Do you accept insurance?
Can we start immediately after discovery?
What if we decide to separate?

If you have a question that isn’t covered here, feel free to Contact Us directly.

Ready to Talk?

The first step is just a conversation. Reach out directly to talk through what you're navigating and whether Dr. Cammy's approach is the right fit for you.

Dr. Cammy is licensed in New York and Connecticut.
Ready to talk? Text or call to get started.

Call: (914) 499-0631

Call: (914) 499-0631